{"id":2373,"date":"2011-04-19T20:22:52","date_gmt":"2011-04-20T03:22:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.caddmanager.com\/CMB\/?p=2373"},"modified":"2011-04-19T21:53:18","modified_gmt":"2011-04-20T04:53:18","slug":"working-outside-the-formal-meetings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.caddmanager.com\/CMB\/2011\/04\/working-outside-the-formal-meetings\/","title":{"rendered":"Working outside the Formal Meetings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Surviving in a Team<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The TV show &#8220;Survivor&#8221; has been broadcasting for quite a few years that gives us some examples that are rather bad on how to work in teams.\u00a0 The show often gives glimpses into the sidebar meetings and clandestine little chats that make and break alliances.\u00a0 Members of one tribe plan how to take out their own members.\u00a0 Convincing each other that the &#8220;other&#8221; person must be ousted.<\/p>\n<p>While this Reality TV pioneering show shows the bad side of working in teams, that does not mean that these short meetings prior to the main meeting are always bad.<\/p>\n<p>Working in teams does not mean that all of the work happens during  the meetings. Sometimes it is the conversations and negotiations that  happen between meetings that make progress.\u00a0 Smart managers realize this  and use it to their advantage. They seek out allies to strengthen  support before the meeting starts. \u00a0 They also try to defuse any  conflict or disagreement with private informal meetings with those that  may disagree.\u00a0 By doing this they may avoid problems during meetings or  make more progress faster by building alliances.\u00a0 Even though there are  many negative examples on the TV show &#8220;Survivor&#8221;, it is an example of  how team members work outside of the formal meeting times. You don&#8217;t  want to use the backbiting and underhanded techniques that are so  obvious on that show.<\/p>\n<p>Moving a team may take more of the sideline campaigning than some are use to.\u00a0 But taking the time to divide up the team and find who is with you and who might be working in another direction is valuable.\u00a0 This gives you a perspective on when items will be easy to get agreement on and the ones where you may have trouble.\u00a0 Knowing what you are up against will streamline meetings by moving faster on those areas when most agree and slowing down for those areas that need greater review.<\/p>\n<p>Having discussions outside the meetings can backfire if you appear to be working the system to your advantage.\u00a0 If you go too far and start making final decisions outside of the meetings, others will soon figure it out and push back. Not because they disagree with the conclusion, but maybe just because they think the process is rigged.\u00a0 You need to move toward agreements but not settle them.<\/p>\n<p>By discussing things apart from the meetings you can make more progress or you could shoot yourself in the foot. 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